The Perfect Way to Introduce Your Kids to Roleplaying Games

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Complex, motivating and challenging, role playing games have come a long way since the ancient days – and proofs are increasing that the benefits of playing go well beyond entertainment and improve brain coordination.

Personally, playing roleplaying games is a life time hobby for me. If you don’t find sitting around the table with family and friends for tabletop RPGs, then I bet I’ll be on my phone or video games. I was introduced to gaming when I was 10, and I’m still a consistent gamer for more than 15 years later. Devoid of any exaggerations, I can say that a lot of my best phases of in life can be drawn back to roleplaying games.

Games have for a long time been known to teach us (especially children) to keep an eye on certain limits and ranks of self-control. Roleplaying games that require take-of-turn are a great way to focus attention, since the player is constantly needed realign plans based on other players’ activities.

So, before you go into game stores and get roleplaying games for your kids, here are a few things you’ll want to consider.

Determining suitability and the game setting


Before looking for the big list of games, it’s important that to understand what elements your kids are familiar with. For example, if your young daughter(s) love to pretend they’re princesses or cats or ponies, you should get them a game that will help use acts easily. It really doesn’t make sense to make decisions without premonition of your present parent-approved experiences.

According to Benjamin Rose:

“Kids will have more fun with a game that has elements they are familiar with. There are lots of games based on popular books, movies, and TV shows. The setting of Middle Earth had a great draw for me when I was a kid (and still does). Your kids may be into a specific setting, like Star Wars or Redwall. There are tons of games to choose from—just about any genre you can think of.”

There are several genres of RPGs’ to choose from.

Play out the story line


Well, you’ve now gotten the game setting and you’re looking forward to continue gauging the appropriateness of the games you’ve in mind.

To make sure that you’ve the right package for them, try giving them a synopsis of what nature of experience they will have with games. And if all goes well, then you can go ahead and introduce the package.

According to gameinformer:

“There’s a reason why kids (and adults, for that matter) gravitate to storytelling in picture books and TV shows – we’re predisposed as people to enjoy sharing stories with one another.

Think of one or two sentences that describe the story and the game, and ask your young players if they want to join in.”

Introduce the Characters


You should always keep things simple and strict, if you really need them to love the present you brought home. So make character creation fun and it should be in line with the elements they are familiar with, as aforementioned.

According to gameinformer, most games targeted for young gamers usually require the persons’ running the introductory piece to make the character creation fun.

“First, like with the broader story, keep the rules light. Try to find out what makes each kid excited, and help him or her find their way to the character that matches that description. Especially for the youngest players, it’s okay to guide them along a little bit; you probably know if your niece loves pirates, and if so, offer suggestions that let make an awesome swashbuckling hero.”

Simplify the rules


It’s never about giving the rules because every game is built around some limits, but you should be focused on simplifying the rules for a better understanding. The less time you spend at inception talking about the guidelines and mechanics makes the gaming experience better.

For example, if the kid wants to do something, you should specifically describe how it’s done as you prepare to coach them through every element involved in the game play.

According to Wired:  

“The age of your audience will significantly impact the level of complexity that you’d want to use for your introduction to roleplaying games.”

Therefore to have a simplified introduction of the rules, you should strategically remain focused on the summary, making use of demos, simplifying the tasks, explaining the player characters, giving the hints and having the golden rules in place.

Special Options


There are always a few rules that may not have a good reception, that’s where you should ensure that you’ve got the bonus gaming strategies in place to support their grievances.

And according to gameinformer, introducing the bonus options with rules is an important trick.

“Experienced role-players often bristle when given specific multiple choice options about how to proceed – they want absolute freedom, and wise GMs know when to give exactly that. But that same freedom is rarely the right choice with a new group of kids playing RPGs for the first time. And who can blame them? It’s hard to wrap your head around the idea of a game where you can do virtually anything you can imagine!”

Given them the freedom


Many times you’ll have at least one inquisitive kid on your hand, they may have numerous questions concerning the facts that go on their character sheet and rules, always feel free to answer and never get stalled in the details.

Through answering their questions, you’ll have created a conducive gaming environment and you won’t have much work rather than paying attention to how the enjoy the experience, according to gameinformer .

“Each of them might have different desires for the way the game should go. Some of them want to have their characters talk all the time. Some want to just be goofy all the time. Try to give everyone a moment to shine, and use your attention as the GM as a tool to draw individual players in. It might take some coaxing, but a shy player often really appreciates the chance to share their thoughts and plans, even if other players at the table are louder or seemingly more engaged.”


Just like traveling, sports, exploring, acting, painting, playing instruments, writing poetry, singing, and hundreds of other leisure pursuit, I think gaming is a hobby that everybody on a regular basis.

Generally, there’s nothing precarious involved in playing RPGs. In fact, they foster creativity and that’s why it’s rare to come across an uncreative gamer. This is because gaming requires a series of different active imaginations and the ability to think on versatile platforms, making evident that smart people are often drawn to gaming, so are the creative ones.

During a game, you’ll regularly be presented with situations you weren’t expecting, and just like an engineer you’re forced to improvise and make use of whatever is at hand.

For kids, taking up the roles of a character in a games gives them the natural ability to compare numerous situations, evaluate the options at hand and crunch numbers to see what will work best to solve the problems.

Bonus Video:

A panel of developers discusses how to introduce tabletop RPGs to kids.